“I Believe In Using Your Vacation Days”

I believe in using your vacation days

Unless you work in Orientation, I realize the theme of my “This I Believe” statement comes at an odd time considering summer just ended. I do not work in Orientation, but for every one balanced student affairs colleague, I know two more of us whose personal lives are a little off kilter. I’m included in the latter bunch, so this statement of belief also serves as a personal pledge.

During the summer of 2005, my friend Annie and I traveled to Scotland to complete a practicum at the University of Edinburgh. True to so many individuals’ abroad experiences, I became more independent and inspired by experiencing a different culture. On our lunch breaks we went hiking with our coworkers where we would exchange thoughts about our different countries. I recall a conversation we had about time off and I came to find out that the people in Scotland had several weeks of vacation! My new friends were equally surprised to find that our time was much more limited, and one of them wondered aloud, “How do parents care for their children during the summer?” She reminded me of the value of spending quality time with my family.

One of the ways I recharge is by spending time with my parents, siblings, and close friends. Each day at work presents a multitude of new challenges and demands so I find comfort in the familiar of the people who know me best. I’ve had the pleasure of transitioning into the adult dynamic of mutual respect between a daughter and her parents. This new element to our relationship has given me more confidence knowing that people I respect so much value my insights. Along with my family members, I’m lucky enough to have friends who possess so many skills I aspire to acquire. They are experts at service learning, exploring spirituality, and producing art. I hold all of these people close to my heart and make time for them often for they are my source of daily inspiration.

Student affairs colleagues, I know you will reach incredible goals this year, but I also encourage you to exercise self-care. Whether you take one vacation day for an extended weekend with your family or a week to travel to new destinations, I know you will return as a better, refreshed professional.

Emily Harris
CCPA Director of Communications